We’re taught from the time we’re little that guys make the first move. That’s how you know he really likes you. Stop the presses! That’s not really true! Studies show that the ladies are really in charge. In 90% of romantic relationships, body language experts have found that the female initiated the interaction by sending subtle romantic body language cues. This sent the message for the guy to come over and start the conversation…which hopefully will lead to romance and love. So ladies, you may want to study a little body language to make sure you’re sending the right message. Just a few simple moves can make all the difference in attracting him or not.
Move #1: The Romantic Gaze
Gaze at him over your shoulder and down just a bit. When you look down just a little bit in pictures, you’ll see it makes your eyes look bigger in comparison to your face. It works the same face to face. You’ll see models do this if you look closely. We’re hardwired to think that creatures with big eyes are more attractive. For example, babies and puppies always capture our attention because they’re so cute. It’s those big eyes that suck us in. You can also accomplish a big eye look with makeup, but be careful not to cake it on. Your plan will almost certainly backfire with too much makeup on those lovely eyes of yours.
See how much less attractive Kim Kardashian looks without the head tilt and makeup. It’s all about the size of her eyes in relation to her chin. She really knows how to work the cameras!
Move #2: Romancing the Wrists
Definitely show a little wrist. This is the most sensitive part of your body. Showing it, says that you’re open to a sensitive interaction..and he’ll find it irresistible.
Move #3: Stand Sexy
Notice how you stand. If you really want to attract him in, let him see the width of your hips. On an unconscious level, guys want a girl that shows she can bear a child. Those wide hips are made just for that! So show them off by crossing your legs every of often when you’re standing. And if you’ve got the body type, accent your waist. Typically an hourglass figure is thought to be the most attractive. And it shows the width of your hips. So take off those baggy clothes and wear clothes the show off your figure. A fashison consultant can help you find the most flattering clothes for you. A great blog to reference is by Marion Rothschild. Her insights will help you accent your figure perfectly and reel the man of your dreams in. //www.marianrothschild.com/category/theblog/
Move #4: Cue the Vertical Leg Cross
Guys voted and the most sexy body language they can see from their lady is the almost vertical leg cross. See how her legs are crossed but the shins are almost parallel? It takes a little practice but will pay dividends. You’re certain to draw attention with this confident yet sexy move.