Prince Harry and Meghan MArkle are still in the news. And in the last newsletter I told you that we’d talk about why Meghan will never be seen as Princess Diana was.
The trouble is that she’s acting. And this isn’t going to get her into the spot of being the world’s darling.
Here’s one example as to why. Take a look at this:
Here’s what I see
She’s asked directly why she wanted to make the documentary
She looks straight up at the ceiling, exposing her neck. It’s a very sensitive area. This is something people do when they’re feeling comfortable.
Then she says, ‘I’m not gonna say that it’s comfortable’. This is the real tell. The unconscious mind can’t process a negative. So that means comfort is top of mind. It’s the first thing out of her mouth. She’s used to the cameras and has made a career of getting attention. It’s super comfortable for her.
If she wasn’t comfortable she’d say ‘It’s painful’ or ‘This has been an awful experience’ while she looked down (that shows getting into negative emotions) and also hid her neck to protect it.
So the neck exposure is mismatched body language to the words.
And this is why she’s not grabbing the hearts of the world. People sense something is off.
It would be tacky to say that she likes the attention and needs the money.
Here’s How I’m Thinking About It
Just because someone lies it doesn’t mean they’re a 100% bad person. Likely it’s been extremely tough on her from the paparazzi and tabloid harassment and possibly from just her personality rubbing the royals the wrong way. People lie when they get stressed. She just hasn’t been able to manage this situation well. A little understanding of why people lie goes a long way.
But no matter why they lie, you may still have to deal with the lie. So stay on your toes, fraud fighters! Believe the body first and take the words with a grain of salt.