As evolved as we think we all are, we’re still wired like cavemen even when it comes to body language. Men are wired to pay attention to what’s far away. This helped them hunt. Women are wired to notice what’s close to them, this helped them take care of babies needs. Today these same patterns exist. The problem men run into is that the women are looking for fine details (especially in actions) and they’re going to respond accordingly to these signals. Since it’s not natural for men to pay attention to fine movements, a quick study in body language will certainly help you with the ladies and in business too so take a look at these body language tips!
Tip #1:
Don’t grab the waist of your pants with your thumb and let your hands hang out. This gesture shows a sexually aggressive crotch display and is women hate it.
Tip #2:
Open the car door for her: Chivalry is not dead! Here’s a big secret: most women really want to be taken care of while still like the idea of being independent as well. Just because you unlock the door with your remote does not show you put effort into making her comfortable.
Tip #3
Use smooth movements. Jerky movements hint that you’re nervous and unsure of yourself. Be confident! Ladies prefer men that are suave with no secrets to hide over a man that is obviously and recklessly flirting.
Tip #4
Remove barriers between you and whoever you’re talking with. If you’re uncomfortable, your tendency will be to put a little protection between you and whoever is across from you. Get rid of coffee cups and anything between you. And especially DO NOT put furniture in the middle of you and the other person!
Don’t be like this guy!
Tip #5
Uncross your legs and arms. When you cross your legs and arms; Body Language Experts say, you’re closing yourself off to the situation and whoever is around you. Nobody will find you engaging and approachable. You may need to train yourself to do it and you may seem a little uncomfortable, but go ahead and uncross yourself. You’ll attract more good things your way.
Don’t be like this guy!
